Poll// if your ex was a better lover and nice 70% of the time and??/?

you had a chance to be with someone you had been with for 28yrs would you do it? reasons besides controlling as well as his mom & him have more of a relationship than we do. he tells her all and she trys to run me. he said she is crazy not nice only nosey his home. plus he tells all. not one thing we have in our private lives is private! and its sad. advise please? i have not ever cheated for the record.. he accuses me. and i see he is on chat lines? tx-ing pion woman ect. advise please?? exuse any misspelled words. im so sleepy im going to bed. work real hard !!plus, stressed to the limit as well.